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One theme that stands out powerfully in French Braid is that the Garrett family members are disaffected: Across the board, they do not understand one another, do not enjoy one another, do not grow together, have little in common, and show little desire or ability to overcover the emotional distance between them. Tyler emphasizes this theme by demonstrating how it pervades a narrative spanning five generations—including Mercy’s father and Serena’s son—over 60 years. The eight separate episodes from the life of the family each uniquely bear out the dysfunction, dislike, and distance that characterize the Garrett family. Chronologically, the theme begins with Tyler noting that Mercy’s father, Mr. Wellington, constantly found fault with his son-in-law despite Robin’s devotion to the company Wellington entrusted to him. Eight decades later, Alice expresses outrage to David that Lily has remarried without telling anyone in the family—just as Alice expressed outrage to Lily when David married Greta without telling her. Symbolically, the clearest image of the family unit comes from Alice as she looks back toward the beach from the lake and sees a scene resembling a French Impressionist painting of people gathering at water. The difference, she notes, is that the painting shows people engaging with one another. Arriving at the beach, she realizes, everyone is disengaged. Another artistic representation of this comes from Mercy’s home-interior portraits. Most of the images on her canvases appear as impressions, vague suggestions, while one item in each portrait stands starkly apart, painted in perfect detail. This mirrors the structure of each chapter—throwing one character at a time into sharp focus—as well as Mercy’s view of her family: She only has clarity about one person and that person’s place and function—herself.
To say the family members are completely disaffected does not mean that they do not form alliances, maintain closer relationships with some, and draw together when it becomes necessary. Alice and David, who find nothing else of interest during their infamous lake vacation, draw close to one another. Alice maintains pride in the idea that she and David have bonded, although there is almost never contact between them. Lily and Mercy have an odd union. Though Lily complains that her mother cannot grasp the gravity of the problems she faces—her complaint both when she is 15 and when she is in her mid-twenties—Mercy immerses herself in Lily’s dalliances, triangles, and crises, seemingly relishing the chaotic thrills. Yet, when Lily wants to live in her art studio, Mercy turns her away. Tyler depicts Robin as being oblivious to virtually all the family dynamics. He disrupts, demands, and disapproves without making anyone happy or anything better. As the family expands numerically and geographically, Tyler shows that the disaffection among them remains constant, with second-generation members passing down their judgments and prejudices to their children: Alice lists those family members she thinks are worthy and unworthy to her youngest, Candle, saying that Mercy should never have had children. Across the span of the novel, emotional disaffection pervades.
In contrast to the perpetual distaste the Garretts feel toward one another, they are unfailingly present for one another in times of crisis. David expresses this phenomenon in Chapter 8 as he and Greta discuss Garrett family relationships and he makes a clear distinction between liking family members and loving them. For all the cutting gossip, anger, and disapproval the characters voice about and toward one another, there are abundant examples of the family rising to the occasion to help one another. A clear instance that reveals the distinction between liking and loving appears in Chapter 2. Alice chastises and mocks Lily for her folly in believing that Trent, six years older and clearly intent on taking advantage of Lily, could possibly have any real affection for her. When Alice discovers Trent attempting to have sex with Lily, however, Alice flies to Lily’s defense, castigating Trent and warning him away. She never shames Lily or mentions to her parents what happened. This thread of willingness to rescue and sacrifice for other family members binds the Garretts and also winds its way through new family members and children. The numerically greatest example of this happens in July of 1990, when the family rallies to support Robin’s attempt to throw a surprise anniversary party for Mercy. The sisters each tried to dissuade their father. Yet, even while assuming the party will be a disaster, the entire family gathers in their ancestral home, waiting for Mercy to walk home from her studio. The abject silence that descends upon the gathering when Lily enters is a testimony to the shared fear that Robin’s plans will fail. Instead, everything proceeds just as he planned. Mercy becomes part of the group’s rescue of Robin by folding herself into the celebration and remaining with him to reminisce after everyone departs.
Tyler reveals that much of the loving support family members extend to one another comes secretly and silently. For instance, Robin assumes that no one in the family knows that Mercy lives in her art studio apart from him. In actuality, the entire family understands the situation and never mentions it to him. In Chapter 7, Eddie fearfully struggles to prevent Lily from learning that he lives with his partner, Claude; yet when the encounter happens and Eddie demands to know how Lily reacted, Claude expresses that Lily knows Eddie is gay. Reflecting, he realizes the entire Garrett clan is aware of his orientation, accepts him, and keeps his secret for his sake. While the Garretts share a common distaste for one another, their family bond of love always trumps the dislike.
Tyler relates that, as a young mother, Mercy often fantasized of running away, of disappearing and beginning a new life elsewhere. In her middle years, once David has moved out and started his college career, she reflects back on those daydreams, glad that she did not act upon them. However, she has since made an escape plan that is realistic and tangible. She puts it into action as she quietly, gradually moves her life away from Robin and into her art studio, several blocks from their house. The move slowly becomes complete in every way. Mercy discovers how to leave Robin without breaking her promise that she will never divorce him. She has escaped. Mercy, however, is just the pioneer of those who seek to escape the Garrett family. David is the most obvious in his desire to escape, prolonging his college exodus until Christmas break forces him to come home. In the summer, however, he travels with a theater group. Once he escapes, he maintains that distance emotionally and physically for the remainder of his life.
The desire to escape, Tyler reveals, is not confined to a couple of individuals. Except for oblivious Robin, the family experience is painful enough that everyone wants to escape. Nor is the need to be apart from the disaffected family merely expressed geographically, as with Mercy and David. Lily finds respite and new emotional distance when Morris comes into her life. Suddenly, he becomes the “normal” person who relates to Robin and Mercy on Lily’s behalf. So long as Morris lives, he is the buffer behind whom Lily escapes from the conflict and sniping of her youth. Alice escapes the “craziness” she perceives in her family through social ascendance. Her marriage to Kevin, his financial success, and the new community to which they relocate allow her to focus her need to govern away from the people she could never control. As the story proceeds, the various family units progressively leave the Baltimore area, the ultimate form of escape, spreading out from New York City to Florida to North Carolina. Their relationships have grown so distant that Robin’s grandchildren scarcely recognize one another, and they fail at trying to name individuals in old family photos. David grasps the dual reality of this pervasive theme: Like strands of hair in a French braid, the members of the family have successfully escaped one another but cannot escape the bondage of their upbringing.
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By Anne Tyler